Friday, August 29, 2008

Changes In A Family

Not sure where to start with this one...for reasons of privacy i'm not going to mention who exactly i'm talking about, but note that they are people who are close to me.

This couple have had problems for a while and its just now got to the point where neither of them can stand each other. Well they have three children together and they're fighting like they hate each other.

How can two people who've created three perfect babies together possibly fight this much?

It's true that the father of the family had drinking and temper problems, but he was doing better.
It's also true that the mother of the family was controlling and had a friend that kept her away from her husband , but she was always there for her kids.

They both just felt they had to get away from each other and now the kids are stuck in the middle of the bickering and name calling. I feel so bad for this family and i want to help them, but it's not my place to interfere with others' personal affairs.

Now they are calling it quits. She spoke with a lawyer.

I know they still love each other, but i don't think they can be with each other anymore. I just hope they work something out with each other, for their kids' sake.

As much as i would love to take sides in the argument, it's just really hard to tell when you talk to them individually. She would tell her side of the story and then he would tell his side of the story. Both of which were completely differents, almost everytime. It's enough to give you a headache because you don't know which one to believe. I just want to help them resolve their problems so bad, so everything can go back to the way things were.

All i can do right now is hope and pray.

-Kristina

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